Saturday, December 27, 2008

Arthur

Arthur passed away Friday, December 12, 2008.

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Meet Arthur

This is my friend, Arthur. Arthur is a patient at Living Hope’s health care center. He was admitted about two months ago with cancer. Upon his arrival, Arthur completed his first round of radiation. Just recently, however, he found out that treatment will not be continued as the cancer has spread too far into his body and is incurable.

Although this begins as a sad story, there is hope in Arthur’s life. I received Arthur’s permission to share his story with you, as it is one of forgiveness and restoration …

Arthur’s pastor pays regular visits to the health care center to visit him. Against Arthur’s wishes, his pastor contacted his long lost family members to inform them of Arthur’s state. Arthur has an ex-wife and a daughter, whom he hasn’t seen in over 32 years. Arthur was married for approximately three years and had a baby girl, named Wendy. When Wendy was two years old Arthur left his family to live a life on the streets. Arthur’s life was consumed with drugs and alcohol. He spent his time in and out of various shelters, having absolutely no contact with his daughter.

To Arthur’s utter surprise, Wendy contacted Living Hope after hearing news about her father. Once Living Hope confirmed Arthur was a patient, she sent him an email - the first communication in over 32 years!

I sat with Arthur on the porch of Living Hope and listened as he tried to process everything that was going on. “I can’t believe this is happening after all of this time”, “I wonder what her life has been like”, “What do I say back to her?”. After hours upon hours of thinking, the only thing that Arthur could come up with was to start off his letter by saying, “There is not enough paper in the world for me to write how I feel.”

Arthur told me how he thought about his baby girl everyday for the past three decades. He just couldn’t find it in himself to contact her. What would she want to do with a man who left his own child? Wendy, however, had been trying to locate Arthur for years. Who was her father? What was he like? Was she like him?

Wendy’s initial email began a slew of correspondence between the two; with regular emails, letters and phone calls. Arthur has shared his letters with me as he proudly shows off the pictures of his beautiful daughter and granddaughter. He lights up when Wendy’s name is mentioned and he can’t wait to brag about the new happenings that are going on in her life. She is a school teacher, a published author, a mother and a wife. What I find most fascinating is that Wendy has no resentment towards Arthur. She had a blessed upbringing with a father who legally adopted her through marriage to her mother. Wendy has forgiven Arthur… and that is pretty powerful!

There is one thing, however, that Wendy asked Arthur to do for her. She sent him a blank birthday card and asked him to sign it and send it back to her on her birthday, acknowledging her life. He sent it back after sketching a few doodles and expressing her worth to him.

Being a part of this reunion was incredible. Here is a woman who has shown the most amazing example of forgiveness. Here is a man who has received a second chance at having a family. I pray for restoration to continue in Arthur’s live and that he finds peace, joy and abundant love in his last days here on earth.

Monday, November 24, 2008

DC4K - Comes to an end

Last Monday, November 17th, was our final get together with the DC4K team. I joined the three other leaders (pictured below) in hosting a "good-bye" celebration for the children and their parents. During the evening, we showcased a typical DC4K class. It looks a bit like this:

- Intro/Open discussion
- Exercise
- Game
- Intro to weekly topic (i.e. expressing feelings, family dynamics, etc.)
- "Kids Like Me" DVD
- Small group activities/Snack time
- Bible study
- Ending prayer

I've volunteered with DC4K for the past 14 weeks. DC4K is an amazing outreach that I think should be implemented in our local churches. In fact, I plan on discussing the curriculum with my home church as soon I return stateside. The class provides an outlet for the children to discuss personal issues in a safe, comfortable setting. They can connect with other kids their age who are going through similar experiences. DC4K also gives the parents an avenue to talk to their children about divorce and specific issues relating to their family.

It's been a privilege teaching these precious babes and to see them blossom in their spiritual walk. I too, have learned many valuable lessons while participating in this course; both dealing with my own family hurts, as well as learning more about the art of teaching. What a fabulous experience DC4K has been. God is good!




Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Painful Realities

Some people say that missionaries experience heightened emotions while they are abroad. I think this was true for me when I first arrived in South Africa. However, as culture shock wore off and I settled in to a daily routine, my extreme highs and lows started to balance out a bit.

Today, however, is another story. It is a little past lunch time and I've already seen and heard things beyond my comprehension. My emotions have been rattled, to say the least. I began the morning at Living Hope's health care center, visiting patients. I usually spend my time in the males' ward (they tend to be more talkative than the females). I joined five men in the sun room (although all but two of the men were sleeping). I engaged in a very interesting conversation with a fellow that I will call "Will". He is in his mid-30s and is affected with AIDS and Tuberculosis. Although I know that the majority of the patients are HIV and AIDS stricken, I rarely have open and graphic conversations regarding their status with them (it can be a taboo and sensitive subject to some people). But this morning, my conversation with Will became quite intense, very quickly. Will had his left eye removed a few years back. He explained that the TB had spread to his eye so it had to be taken out. He informed me that TB is usually accompanied by HIV/AIDS. In fact, four out of the five guys in the sun room this morning are all infected with HIV/AIDS and TB. You would think this would startle me a bit, being so close to such a fatal disease, but it honestly had little affect on me. I see these patients as nothing else but my friends. Will went on to tell me about the day that he found out he was HIV positive. I asked him what his response was. With little emotion he said that he just accepted it (as though it was no big deal). He explained that he doesn't know how or where he contracted the virus. It could have been from any one of the several women that he slept with. He admitted that he never contacted them to share the news of his positive result (his reasoning? - why bother, it did him no good). He also admitted to having unprotected sex with other women since the knowledge of his status. Will's days are now spent in the health care center, where he has little energy to move from his bed to the sun room chair. He takes a handful of pills each day to fight off the viruses that are attacking his frail body. Although he can be engaging and personable, he has little, if any, hope for his future. This reality is shared amongst many of the patients in the center. I've been here for over 5 months. Since this time there have been many deaths. (48 patients have died in the center over the past year). HIV/AIDS is a harsh and vivid reality here.

My conversation with Will was interrupted as I was invited to join the Wednesday morning staff meeting in the health care center. The Wednesday morning meetings are a highlight of my week, as I join the staff members in sharing prayer requests, concerns over patients, issues in the center, etc. A box of tissues is usually on hand as our discussions can be quite intense. Today I joined eight other colleagues for a debriefing/sharing time. One of the workers (who I am very close to) shared that her son is struggling with drugs. She brought in an instrument that she found in her son's room. She met with a drug counselor this morning, and he confirmed the utensil is used to smoke tic (which is what we call "meth"). This mother was beside herself as she broke down and cried over her child's lifestyle. She was not alone in this painful reality. Two other mothers shared her similar struggle. Out of the eight people in attendance this morning, three were directly affected by their children using drugs. And this is a typical story. Although drugs exist in my community back home, they run rampant here in the townships of Cape Town. Drugs and alcohol hold entire communities in bondage. It is very easy for me to say that The Lord, Jesus Christ, is truly the only answer to hope and a future.

I am now preparing to go to Red Hill, a township that I volunteer in. It is very windy today, with down pouring of rain. I think about all of the people that live in shacks with wooden or tin roofs and mud and plastic flooring. :: Sigh :: Makes you reevaluate things, doesn't it...?

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

"The Eve Project" - Launched

"The Eve Project" has been launched! Just to refresh your memory - "The Eve Project" is an outreach initiative that I've been participating in through Living Hope (refer back to Oct. 5th blog). The aim of the project is to reach out to the young women in our community who regularly miss school due to lack of necessary feminine products. The need for adequate education is paramount to any long-term solution to the issues of poverty and changed behavior (AIDS and HIV are directly proportional to poverty). Therefore, we see an opportunity to reach out to these young women to make a change in their lives in an effort to effect a long-term change in their community.

"The Eve Project" was launched last week. An email announcement, along with a PDF flyer, was sent to several international churches requesting partnership. As a counterpart for our local efforts, volunteers will be delivering The Eve Project's message to schools, organizations and women's groups in the greater Cape Town area. We are asking for donations in kind with the "buy one, donate one" theme. (Buy a pack of tampons for you, donate one to our ministry.)

We are excited about the impact this effort will have in the community. Pray for us that we will be able to use this project as a means to share the gospel and that lives will be changed for eternity.

Visiting Malcolm

Since arriving in June, I've spent a lot of time at Living Hope's health care center (what used to be called a "hospice"). I enjoy helping the staff members with their daily tasks, and visiting with the patients. One patient, named Malcolm, holds a special place in my heart. He has spent several months in the center with an amputated leg. He has had three surgeries. Each operation claims more of his limb as he is brought back to Living Hope to recover.

I've had the privilege of spending several hours getting to know Malcolm. As we shared life stories (his time in the war, living on the streets, the latest books that he's read, etc.) we developed a close friendship. About a month ago, however, Malcolm was released from the health care center and brought to a homeless shelter. It was an emotional day for me when Malcolm left because I was not around to say "good-bye". I tried to make it back to the center in time to give my friend a hug, but we had just missed each other. I cried on the phone as I told Malcolm that I would miss him and that I would try to visit him soon.

Luckily I was able to pay Malcolm a visit this past weekend. Without a way of getting ahold of him, I found directions to where he was staying and just showed up. He was so surprised! I vividly remember the expression on his face. What a wonderful image to imprint in my memory bank. He gladly exclaimed that I was his first visitor... ever!

That was probably the last time that I will see Malcolm. I pray that the Lord protects him and that he finds purpose in each day of his life. I pray for healing and restoration to come into his heart and that he finds peace with the Lord.

Although Malcolm doesn't have a relationship with the Lord, yet. I hold on to the truth that God doesn't wish for any to perish but for all to have His saving grace. I'm delighted that I had the opportunity to show Malcolm a piece of God's love. Even if it was by a simple visit.

How can you share God's love today? Who in your sphere of influence is in need of your attention? your kind words? your prayers?



Saturday, November 8, 2008

Friday - Day O' Service

On Friday afternoons, I join the other individual volunteers in doing service work around the Living Hope communities. The past few weeks we have assisted in painting a new church plant, rebuilding a roof on a shack, and planting a garden. I've enjoyed the time of fellowship as we all come together for a central purpose. It's also great getting down and dirty with our hands (while simultaneously working on the good ol' farmers tan).

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Certificate of Completion - Entrepreneurship Training

Living Way's Entrepreneurship training has come to an end. The five remaining entrepreneurs and I completed phase three of the course yesterday afternoon. We are now certified by the South African Institute of Entrepreneurship in the course of Microplanner Training in Entrepreneurship. (I wonder how many times I can say "Entrepreneurship" in this blog.)

This is an exciting time for the local entrepreneurs who are now ready to begin their own businesses. Although they have been equipped with tools and training, there is much more work ahead. This is just the beginning!

To support and encourage the students, Living Way is helping to pair each individual with a business mentor. They are also coordinating a support group for the students and will arrange business workshops when possible. Although Living Way is committed to coming alongside of the entrepreneurs, they will not run the business for them. Their program is about empowering and equipping the under-resourced, and to share the good news of the gospel in order to break the cycle of poverty.

Again, I feel so blessed to be a part of this training program. I not only learned oodles and oodles about the basics of business, but I was also introduced to cultural differences in business and to the emotions and sacrifices that are part of the process. I pray that each entrepreneur is graced with hope, prosperity, and fruitfulness. Above all else, I pray that the Lord is the owner of their business and that His name is glorified.





Thursday, October 30, 2008

Fun Frank Fotos

Here is an itsey bitsey taste to the "frank family fun" we had when my mom and aunt came to visit me in Cape Town, South Africa.






















Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Good bye Franks

My mom and aunt leave to go back to the states today. Please pray for their safe return. And please lift me up in prayer as it will be hard to say "good bye".

Monday, October 27, 2008

Missing Luggage

My mom and Anne have been here for two weeks now and my mom is still missing her luggage. Ugh! The suitcase not only contains her valuables, but also donations and gifts for Living Hope (and for me!). If you could please take a moment to shoot up a quick prayer for her luggage to arrive safely before Wednesday, that would be much appreciated. (she leaves to go back to the states on Wednesday, so it would be great if the luggage came before then).

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

God's Rainbow

Last night I had a very intimate prayer time with the Lord. I reflected on His promises and provision for my life. It was quite powerful.

This morning I woke up to the most radiant rainbow right outside of my window. The beginning of the rainbow actually began on my front lawn. What is so astounding is that a rainbow symoblizes God's promise to His people. (Story of Noah's Ark).

Isn't it amazing how God can communicate to us. This beautiful rainbow spoke magnitudes to me. It affirmed the prayers of promise and provision that I had just spoken to the Lord. Wow, God is good!


Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Fishing

Stanton took me out fishing this weekend. We joined a handful of locals on a dock in the harbor. It wasn't long before I felt a tug on my line. I reeled in what I thought was seaweed, but was overly suprised when I discovered a squid on the end of my fishing pole. How fun! I caught a squid! Cool huh?? Stanton wanted to teach me how to clean and cook it, but I ended up giving it away to a young girl who visited the homeless shelter next door. I figured with my mad fishing skills it would be easy to catch a dozen more. ;)

So Trav, what do you think about that?! Maybe you should come and visit your fisherwomen sister and she'll take you on a guided tour. Book your reservations now...

Training and More Training

I just finished an intense week of training. Last Monday - Wednesday I participated in phase two of Living Way's entrepreneurial development courses. Thursday - Saturday I attended Grassroots training, which is aimed at teaching individuals (and corporations) how to manage, think and lead more effectively. By Saturday afternoon, my brain was fried! To say the least.

I am very grateful for the opportunity to participate in these training programs. I'm not exactly sure how the teachings will come into play in my life but I do know one thing - the Lord is preparing me. A friend recently told me to "Pay attention!". Pay attention to what's going on in your life, to reoccurring themes and teachings that are taking place, to places and to people, etc. Pay attention! Because the Lord is preparing you for what's to come.

With that said, I'm excited to see how my recent business and empowerment training will be put to use. I patiently, yet eagerly, await for God's plans to unfold. Because His plans and His purpose is so much grandeur than we could ever imagine.

Are YOU paying attention to what's happening in your life? Pay attention because it's preparation for what's to come.



More about Living Way's Entrepreneurial Development Training

From Monday to Wednesday I participated in Living Way's entrepreneurial development courses. This is the second phase of the program (the first phase took place in September). Entrepreneurs are essential to the reduction of unemployment (and indirectly, the combat of HIV/AIDS). Therefore, Living Way has put together a program to come alongside prospective entrepreneurs to train, mentor, and support them. Initially I had planned to assist the facilitators in sharing of the material. But I soon became a student with wide eyes and an eager attitude. Each day I walked out of the classroom with a brain full of knowledge.

Approximately a dozen students participated in phase one of the program. Each entrepreneur was given a homework assignment to do market research for their company. They were to instructed to share their findings with the Living Way facilitators in order to attend the classes in phase two. When phase two began (last week), only five students remained. These five individuals have proven their commitment to this program and to running their own company. It's been amazing to watch their dreams turn into a reality. Phase three takes place in November.

Living Way's Spring 2008 Entrepreneurs:

* Tania - Sells diapers and other baby products
* Jeremy - Music production and audio recording studio
* Elizabeth - Car wash
* Mark - Photography
* Bradley - Sports replica shop

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Visitors

I have visitors! My mom and my aunt, Anne, arrived on Monday night. They will be staying with me in South Africa until October 30th. I am soooooo excited that they are here. (Thank you, Lord, for bringing my family here safely.) I can't wait for them to see what my Cape Town life is all about. They have already toured Living Hope's facilities and today was their first official volunteer day (painting today and tomorrow, and next week they will be working at the homeless shelter and kids' clubs). I'm also eager for them to see the full beauty of this country. Needless to say, the next two weeks will be jam-packed with days-o-fun. Yippeee!!!

Ps. I'm always open for more visitors...

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Helicopter Tour

Yesterday was my boyfriend’s birthday (“yes”, I have a boyfriend). In celebration, we took a helicopter tour of Cape Town. It was so awesome!!! The flight lasted 30 minutes, and boy did we have a great time. We even saw his house and the Baatjes home (which is where I'm currently living). Oh yeah, and the coolest part for me was when we went over the ocean and saw two huge whales swimming together. Nothing like having a bird’s eye view of that! The one downfall was that I got a little bit of motion sickness (go figure). But to be quite honest, it was all worth it. Good times were had!
Ps. God is good!






"The Eve Project"

Recently, I’ve been working on a campaign called “The Eve Project”. Please read below for more information.

The prevention ministries at Living Hope include girls’ clubs that are led by trained life skills educators. These educators have identified a need in their communities for feminine hygiene products. Many families cannot afford to buy these products. Without feminine protection, many young women do not attend school during their menstrual cycle. This results in the young women missing up to five days of school every month (and ultimately some drop out of school). There is a great need for a consistent supply of products to be distributed within communities. Having access to such products will ensure that the young women can attend school regularly and obtain the education that is so important for their future.

The aim of “The Eve Project” campaign is to partner with churches internationally to raise financial support, and to team up with local churches, schools and organizations to provide feminine hygiene products. We’re asking that when women buy a package of feminine products for their own use, that they purchase a second package for Living Hope’s “Eve Project”. All donations will be collected on a monthly basis and delivered to those in need.

Please feel free to email me if you have any questions or would like to get involved with “The Eve Project”.

Whale Watching

Wednesday, September 24th was a national holiday for South Africa called Heritage Day. My friend, Brenda, and I decided to take a day trip to Hermanus. Hermanus is considered the best land-based whale-watching destination in the world. And it just so happened that the day we visited Hermanus was the opening day of their Whale Festival. How super cool!

We spent the day touring the town, visiting the shops and activity tents, and of course “ooohing” and “aaawwwing” at the spectacular whale sightings. The peak viewing season is October and November as whales come into shore to calve. I can’t explain how beautiful it was to see these humongous yet graceful creatures jump out of the water and return with a huge splash. I tried my best to capture it on film, but my photos just don’t do the experience justice.

(I’ve also seen whales along the coast as I drive to my project site in Red Hill. God is so good to grace us with such a stunning show.)


Friday, September 26, 2008

Khumi's Story

I thought it would be a good idea to share a "real life" story from our Living Way ministry. Below is a feature on Khumi. She is such a remarkable woman!

Khumi’s Story

In 2006, Khumi Morare arrived at the Living Hope Health Care Center in critical condition from the HIV virus. She was alone in Cape Town with her twin babies. Her health was deteriorating and she had no job to provide an income. Khumi’s future looked bleak.

Slowly but surely, Khumi was nursed back to health by the staff at the health care center. As she gained physical wellness, she looked to restore other areas of her life. Khumi’s driving force was her two children, who had been placed in foster care during her recovery. She was determined to regain custody and to make a better life for her family.

Khumi enrolled in Living Hope’s first-ever sewing class, run by Evangeline Ministries. She was a quick and motivated learner. Her efforts soon paid off as she began to manufacture and sell African animal tote print bags. These bags provided a sustainable income. Khumi earned enough money to take care of her children, and with the help of friends she was able to purchase and furnish a shack. Her new life was beginning; a life full of hope.

Khumi attended Living Way’s entrepreneurial training course and was appointed the distributor of the African tote bag making business. Through a process of micro-loans, Khumi and seven other graduates of the sewing classes formed their own micro-businesses. These businesses operate on a weekly cycle. Material is purchased from Khumi and finished products are then sold back to her. Each week these men and women grow their businesses by developing capital for future jobs. They are each independent business owners, and can expand their product line to serve the needs of their communities.

Khumi continues to be a beacon of courage and motivation to those she encounters.

www.livingway.co.za

Monday, September 22, 2008

New Occurrences

Oh wow, there have been so many changes taking place lately.

New Home - The Baatjes Family

This past weekend I moved out of Sundollar, the Bed & Breakfast that I've been staying in since my arrival in June. Ursula, a lovely woman that I work with at the Living Hope office, has opened up her home to me. I will be staying with Ursula, her husband, Clive, and their two children, Savash and Chiara.

It was a bittersweet move. As I packed up my belongings, I reflected on the past three months and thanked the Lord for the paths that I crossed during my stay at Sundollar. I said a teary "good-bye" to the other ACTS volunteers and wished them well in their adventures ahead (I will still be seeing them from time to time). I also rejoiced in the new journey that awaits me. I pray that I am a blessing onto the Baatjes family as they have already blessed me with their hospitality and friendship.

The Baatjes family


New Work Assignment - Living Way

Living Way works under the umbrella of Living Hope. It is a non-profit organization working to break the cycle of poverty through economically empowering people from under resourced communities. The HIV pandemic is fuelled by poverty and it is the poor who are overwhelmingly affected by the virus. Therefore, it is necessary to tackle poverty in order to get to the root of HIV.

There are currently four focus areas in Living Way.
1 - Community based savings groups - aimed at empowering people to manage their money through Biblical disciplines.
2 - Entrepreneurial development - aimed at raising up small business owners
3 - Job creation projects - partnering with existing jobs to employ more people and secure sustainable incomes
4 - Grassroots - training young adults in order to adjust their mindsets, moving them from a place of entitlement and apathy to an attitude of encouragement, perseverance and self worth.

Last week I participated in my first entrepreneurial training program. As I studied side-by-side with the locals and participated in classroom exercises, I not only learned more about business tactics but I also observed cultural differences between business in South Africa vs. America. I found this experience extremely interesting and I look forward to my time with Living Way.

www.livingway.co.za

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

In The News: Pastor John Thomas and President Bush

An article was published in the community newspaper regarding a meeting with John Thomas and President Bush. I've been meaning to share it with you as I believe it shows the magnitude of Living Hope's efforts and the respect that this organization recieves worldwide. I've summarized the article below.

Reverend John Thomas, founder of Living Hope, met with US President George Bush in his Oval Office at the White House on Thursday, July 15th.

The United States President's Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief (PEPFAR) funds about half of the running costs of Living Hope and Mr. Bush was keen to meet Mr. Thomas. Living Hope is the only church-based charity which is funded by Pepfar. Mr. Thomas said, "I thanked President Bush for his vision in creating Pepfar and I said that I believe it would be his lasting legacy". Pastor John encouraged him to consider setting up a foundation which would continue the work of faith-based organizations, particularly Christian organizations, which would empower the church to reach out further with less political interference. "He responded very warmly to that."

John told Mr. Bush about Living Hope's strategy of reaching one child at a time and about the enormous problem of vulnerable children - from age three upward - being sexually active. He also spoke about how "Aids is rooted in poverty and that we have to deal effectively with poverty and morality."

At their parting, President Bush said that "it was his desire to come and visit the Fish Hoek Baptist Church and Living Hope after his presidency."

Monday, August 25, 2008

Becky's Book Club

I recently finished reading the book One Thing, by Dwayne Roberts. One Thing is about the pursuit of God; living with a fascinated heart that leads to passion for Jesus. I would like to share a passage that really stuck out to me.

Were you able to love me?

Once I was standing before the Lord in prayer, I saw a person from China, a person from Africa, and me.. the bald guy. Jesus looked at the individual from China and said, "In all My sovereign wisdom, My decision was for you to be born and raised in China. With all of the problems, persecution, and discomfort, were you able to love Me?

Then Jesus looked over at the one from Africa and said, "In all My sovereign wisdom, I chose for you to be born in the midst of Africa. It is AIDS-stricken, poor, torn by violence, and oppressed. In the midst of those circumstances, were you able to love Me?

Finally, He turned to look at me. "Dwayne, in all My sovereign wisdom, I chose for you to be born in one of the most affluent societies on the globe - the height of pleasure, entertainment, wealth, and worldly pursuit. In the midst of all those pursuits, were you able to love Me?


Roberts, Dwayne. One Thing. Revelant Books, 2005.


This passage tells me that there are different kinds of obstacles that get in the way of our pursuit of Jesus Christ. The roadblocks are different but the question remains the same, “were you able to love Me?”

In many parts of the world, poverty, disease, and persecution hinder an individual’s relationship with the Lord. (At other times, this may actually drive the pursuit of Christ). However, for me and other Americans, our trials come in the form of material possessions, pleasures, and worldly pursuits. If we have everything we want and need, why bother turning our face to Jesus? What some may refer to as “blessings” (financial security, multitude of possessions, vast opportunities, self sufficiency) may be the very thing that keeps us from an authentic and meaningful relationship with our Creator.

So in reality, when it comes to our spiritual life, we are no better off than someone who lives in a poverty-stricken society filled with disease and corruption; we just face trials of different kinds.

Are you able to love Him?

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Shark Cage Diving - Live Footage

My friend, Stacy, downloaded a video clip from our shark cage diving experience (she had a water cam). It's pretty wild. Thought I would post it here for your viewing pleasure.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m-XZDG85-uY

Monday, August 18, 2008

DC4K

I just got home from my first Divorce Care for Kids class (DC4K). I'm on such an emotional high right now. I feel like the Lord hand selected me for this particular class, with these specifics children, at this exact time. God is good, God is good!

DC4K is a divorce recovery support group for children ages 5-12 years. I will be leading the group with three other volunteers. We will be working with 8+ children every Monday evening for 2 hours. The course runs for 13 weeks.

Two of the other volunteers are school teachers who have participated in past work such as this. I expect to learn loads from them in regards to childrens' ministry.

I'm also super duper excited about the children. I just love them! They are all so uniquely amazing. I can't believe how well I connected with them tonight. It was almost as though I've known them for years. Maybe it's because I have gone through a similar life experience so I can relate. Or maybe it's because the evening was God orchestrated. Either way, I look forward to spending more time with them in the weeks ahead.

Oddly enough, as I study the material to present to the children I find myself learning so much about my own life. Divorce in my family has caused much pain and separation. Through this course I believe God will start to reveal my own brokenness and bring further restoration to my own life and my family.

Funny how I signed up to help kids, but in return the Lord is doing a number on me! Tricky lil' bugger, isn't He?!?! ;)

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Keepin It Real

Alright, it’s time to get real.

I believe God is taking me on a journey of self reflection. I desire to know more of Him and who he has called me to be. In doing so, I begin to understand my desires, my strengths, and my weaknesses. So here I am, bare before you. Nothing to hide.

I think there’s freedom in understanding our faults, accepting them, and then bringing them to the light. It’s only through the light that honesty, healing, and change can occur. So with that said, these are the things that I struggle with, in my past as well as in my present. Perfectionism. Performance. People Pleasing.

We had a bible study last week that really hit home for me. The underlying message was about “being”, not “doing”. The truth is I’m accepted for who I am, not what I do or who I strive to be. I am complete in God’s image and I don’t have to perform for Him. I don’t have to strive for perfection. He loves me in my weaknesses. He loves me in my brokenness. He loves me just the way I am. This is the truth that I want to hold on to. I want to be God pleasing, not man pleasing. I want to be free from the bondage that I put on myself with unrealistic expectations of performance and image. I want to be free from the bondage of trying to meet other people’s expectations. It’s impossible, burdensome, and silly.

As I relate this “life lesson” to my time here in Cape Town, I’d like to focus on “being”, rather than “doing”. Yes, there are work assignments that I’m responsible to fulfill (which I look forward to being a part of). However, I would like to focus my attention on “being” in relationships – with patients in the health care center, with kids in the after school programs, with volunteers that work alongside me, etc. I don’t want to be distracted by the “to do” list that is constantly on my mind. I don’t want to have a hidden agenda of “converting” every random stranger to Christianity. I believe it’s through honest and genuine relationships that the Lord can and will work through me.

I also look forward to “being” in communion with the Lord. To understand what He delights in. To see the completeness of who He is. To know more of Him.

And finally, I look forward to just “being” me.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Red Hill

The past few weeks I've been really focusing my efforts on the Red Hill community. I work alongside two volunteers from the United Kingdom, Chrisie and Emily, as well as Stanton Peterson, who is the Life Skill Educator (LSE) at the Red Hill Kids' Club. Together we minister to the children in the Red Hill community by giving them a meal, sharing a bible story and entertaining them with crafts, activities and sports. Although sharing our love with the children is the number one responsibility, we have also been very actively involved in a community development project. Stanton is the only LSE from Living Hope that works in the Red Hill community at this time (serving over 80 children). His heart is sold out to Red Hill and he has a vision of complete reformation of the land and the people. I've partned with Stanton, Chrisie and Emily to put Stanton's vision on paper in the form of a business/ministry plan. This plan will be shared with local and international partners who are interested in working in the community (by volunteering, donating, researching, etc.) I'm really looking forward to what lies ahead for Red Hill.

I ask for you to join us in prayer as we seek a revival for the people, the land and the church of Red Hill.

Background of Red Hill:

The growth of Red Hill originated about 25 years ago when a man recognized the overwhelming number of people migrating from the Eastern Cape to Simons Town (both areas are located in Cape Town), where they were seeking employment. There was a major need for housing these people in the area closer to Simons Town. This man donated land that he owned, known as Red Hill, and ‘squatter homes’ have been constructed upon it. The continued growth and expansion of the Red Hill township has brought about many urgent needs. Major identifiable socio-economic problems include: poor sanitation (one toilet for five houses, only recently received water from outside tap); malnutrition; unemployment; alcoholism and drug abuse; lack of funds for school uniforms and transport; lack of opportunities for the youth couple with conditions of poverty has led to exposure to sexual activity and stealing; etc. The majority of inhabitant are blacks and colored, and the demographics are varied as whole families reside together.

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Blog Update

Thank you to all of you who have been following my blog. It is so humbling and encouraging to have you come alongside of me on this trip.

I just want to take a moment to respond to some of your messages.

First and foremost, thank you sooo much for the comments you've posted and the emails that you've sent me. Honestly, each message is like sunshine to my heart. Thank you! Please know that I looooove recieving your messages but unfortunately my time online is quite limited, so I'm not always able to email you back as soon as I'd like. I hope you understand...

Secondly, I have heard the masses loud and clear and have decided against buying a car here in Cape Town. :: sigh of relief heard amongst the crowd:: That's right, Capetonians will now be safe to enter the city streets.

Finally, many people have asked me to post more pictures. So here you go....











Sunday, August 3, 2008

Good-bye Friends

Back row, from left to right: Julie, Chrisie, Brenda, Emily. Front row: Me, Amanda, Kelly, Rob, Danielle.

This past week was bittersweet as I said "good-bye" to five of my teammates and close friends. Amanda, Kelly and Jess (not pictured) returned to the states, while Julie went back to Cananda and Rob home to England. I am forever grateful for the time that I shared with these amazing people. I believe God hand picked each one of us to cross paths at this time in our lives. Here is a glimpse into who they are:

* Amanda - one of my best friends from MN. Honest, bold, kind, and one of the "realest" people you will meet.
* Jess - born and raised in Ecuador. Outgoing, up for anything, amazing public speaker.
* Julie - Deep waters of patience and wisdom. Can talk politics all day long. Men line up for her.
* Rob - Without a doubt, one of the coolest guys that I know. We can barely understand each other (b/c of his English accent and my slang), but my stomach hurts from all of our laughter. Mature, considerate and stylish.
* Kelly - my roommate who is so beautiful inside and out. Fountain of grace and discernment. Poetic wisdom spews from her lips.

Thank you all, for leaving an imprint on my heart!

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Amanda: Living Grace

On Tuesday my dear friend, Amanda, returned back home to the United States. We have been on this journey together for the past two months, beginning in Mozambique and ending in South Africa. In fact, she's the reason that I came to Cape Town. Amanda is a school teacher and has the summer off of work. We were both committed to going to Mozambique but Amanda decided to extend her stay in Africa and travel to Cape Town afterwards. I was excited for her and wished her well. Three weeks before our departure to Mozambique, I was talking to Amanda about her trip to South Africa when it dawned on me - I had to go too! So long story short, Amanda paved the path to bring me here to Cape Town and now she has returned home... and here I stay. ;)

I joined Amanda on her last day at Living Hope. Her work assignment is much different than mine so I was super excited to experience "a day in the life of Amanda". And boy oh boy, was it a great day!

For the past 5 weeks Amanda has been volunteering her time at Living Grace, which is a division of Living Hope. Living Grace is a homeless shelter/soup kitchen that provides lockers for belongings, a shower and place to wash and dry clothes, food parcels, social services, pensions, etc.

Here is what our day looked like:

We arrived at Living Grace around 8:15 am and immediately joined in for the morning worship music. Our friend, Rob the Rockstar, jammed out on his guitar while Amanda did the motions to the songs and the rest of us participated with our voices. Every morning after worship music there's a devotional; this is usually given by one of the volunteers (Amanda and friends). The "clients" that show up for breakfast must be present for the devotional in order to recieve coffee. Otherwise, they are treated only to bread. This provides an incentive for them to get to the shelter early. There were about 20+ people that showed up for breakfast this morning (Monday mornings are usually less busy b/c of the weekend - binges, paychecks, etc.).

After breakfast we cleaned up and started preparing the meal for lunch (which is always some kind of soup or stew). This was a great time of story telling, laughs and deep conversation. Amanda and I worked alongside other volunteers as well as the homeless people that came to the shelter. I really enjoyed getting to know the unique personalities of the "regulars" and was surprised at their openness towards me. We served about 50 or so people that day.


As the afternoon progressed, I could really see the light in Amanda as she interacted with the people at Living Grace. She fit in so well in the environment and really connected with the people. She not only "ministered" to them, but she loved on them, befriended them, and became "one of them" during her time here in Cape Town. It was really amazing to see Amanda move in her giftings. She truely has a burden for the brokenhearted and I believe God will use her to do great things for these people.

I don't want to make this blog too long, but the day included many other memorable moments. If you run into Amanda, please feel free to ask her about:

*Alastaire bringing us to the abandoned building where he used to live - drugs, prostitution, and rubbish galore...
*Amanda and I being mistaken as homeless (which I enjoyed)
*Claire (that says enough...)
*Leading Gail to the Lord
*Amanda getting bit on the nose
*The list goes on.....


www.livinggrace.co.za

Sunday, July 27, 2008

Themes

The last week or so has been a bit challenging, emotionally. I have been so overwhelmed with thoughts, emotions, life lessons, etc. It’s been difficult enough to process through everything in my own brain, let alone put my thoughts into words. The Lord has been teaching me so much and stretching me beyond my undefined limits. Sometimes I just need to take time to stop, breathe, and reflect.

With that said, I've spent some time being "still" and reflecting upon my trip thus far. These are the reoccuring themes that keep popping up:

Obedience
Humility
Purity
Earnestly seeking/desiring the Lord
Understanding who I am in Christ

How about YOU? What is He teaching you during this season of YOUR life?

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Shark Cage Diving

You are never going to believe this, but I went Shark Cage Diving this weekend!!! AAaaaaahhhh. It was sooooo amazing! For those who don't realize what a big deal this is for me, let me break it down right quick. I failed swimming lessons... twice! That is how much I am NOT a water person. So to have a great white shark staring me right in the face was probably one the most fearful things I could have faced. But I did it!! Whooo hooooo! (okay, I may have peed my wet suit a time or two, but who's gonna know...)































Thursday, July 10, 2008

My Role

A typical work day for me begins at 7:30 am and ends around 4:30 pm.

In the mornings, I work at the Living Hope health care center. This is a 22 bed facility that provides in-patient care, respite care and counseling to individuals infected with HIV/AIDS as well as other chronic diseases. I have the opportunity to visit and minister with the patients in the clinic. However, my primary responsibility is to work with the internal staff. During my five month stay here, I will be focused on boosting the morale of the health care team. I am quite excited for this task and hope to use my past experiences at Inetium to support my efforts. That’s right, I’m talking about a Raving Fans Committee here – Africa style!! :)

In the near future I will also be working with Living Way, the job creation program. This ministry empowers local individuals (many of whom are past patients from the health care center or attendees of the support groups) to financially sustain themselves and their families. A sewing program has resulted from this ministry. Last week I attended a launch event for a new line of hand bags. Ten people graduated from the sewing training program and received microloans in order to “jump start” their new business. This is a very exciting time for the people involved in the program as it may be their first time earning a source of income. My involvement will be in sales and marketing. I will be partnering with a Living Way member and together we will promote awareness and sales opportunities of the bags. Again, I look forward to using my past work experience and applying it to this ministry. I’m also excited to see how the Lord will use me in this position as I trust and lean on Him.

In the afternoons, I participate in a children’s club located in a township called Red Hill. There are nine branches of children’s clubs in Living Hope. Four days a week, children come to the clubs to participate in a Bible and craft lesson, play games, sings songs, partake in an environmental activity, and receive a nutritious meal. This is a chance for a child to have a positive role model and to learn more about the love of Jesus Christ. I will be assisting Stanton, the life skills educator who runs the Red Hill club. There are approximately 60 or so kids in our club. The need for this program is so great. I pray that the Lord equips us to minister to these children.

Living Hope and ACTS

Living Hope

King of Kings Church began Fish Hoek Baptist Church Trust, a non-governmental, non-profit organization as a vehicle to minister to those in the local area infected and affected by HIV and AIDS. In the years since the formation in 1999, the Trust has grown into three separate ministries.

Living Hope – Living Hope encompasses a variety of programs aimed at prevention, care and treatment of HIV/AIDS. These programs include: a health care center, home-based carers, support groups, social workers, lay counselors, and life skill educators.

Living Way – Living Way is a job creation and poverty alleviation program that offers assistance in skills training, job creation, business development and mentoring. Living Way is a vehicle to improve and increase employment.

Living Grace – Living Grace is a homeless shelter that serves breakfast and lunch. This shelter also offers skills training, activities, mentoring and ministry to those who visit.

www.livinghope.co.za

ACTS - African Christian Tours & Safaris

Living Hope is in partnership with ACTS, an African-based organization that serves international Christian groups or individual volunteers. ACTS takes care of all aspects of travel, accomodations and catering required during our visit to Africa.

www.actsoverland.com
www.africanencounter.org (secular counterpart to ACTS)

Saturday, July 5, 2008

South Africa Overview

South Africa is so much different than Mozambique (the first country that I visited). Mozambique is a third world country. The place where I stayed was unlike my home back in the United States. Houses were made of wood and termite mud, the nationals spoke tribal languages, and many people that I met had never seen a white person before. It was definitely “different” and exciting. However, to my surprise, I was more culture shocked when I arrived in Cape Town, South Africa. South Africa is a first world country that is very modern and English is one of the primarly languages. Overall, it is quite similar to the United States and at times I have to remind myself that I’m in Africa. It’s been a bit of a struggle for me to fully understand the “culture” of this place.

Here’s a bit of insight into South Africa. South Africa is located on the southern tip of the African continent with the Atlantic Ocean on the west, the Indian Ocean on the east, and independent mountain ranges sprinkled throughout the land. Equally beautiful to this amazing backdrop is the human tapestry of the city, where dozens of ethnicities blend together. Here is a breakdown of the different ethnic groups. “Blacks” represent the African people that encompass 9 different tribes (about 75% of population). “Whites” represent European decedents, mainly English and Dutch people (13%), “Coloureds” represent people of mixed decent (9%), and Indian (3%). It’s uncomfortable for me to distinguish people based on their skin color. But to understand South Africa, it’s important to learn about its history and appreciate its ethnic diversity.

South Africa was colonized by the English and Dutch in the seventeenth century. English domination of Dutch descendents (Boers/Afrikaners) resulted in the Dutch establishing new colonies. The discovery of diamonds in these lands around 1900 resulted in an English invasion which sparked the Boer War. Following independence from England, there was an uneasy “power-sharing” between the two groups until the 1940’s, when the Afrikaner National Party was able to gain a strong majority. This National Party invented apartheid as a means to control the economic and social systems. The aim of the apartheid (separate development) was to maintain white majority rule while extending racial separation. Apartheid laws were enacted in 1948 and racial discrimination was institutionalized. In 1950 all South Africans were required to be racially classified into one of three categories: white, black or coloured. Apartheid was finally abandoned in 1993. In 1994 South Africa had its first fully democratic election and elected Nelson Mandela as the country’s first black president. This is the beginning of a new era for South Africa, however there is still much pain felt in this country.

If I were to sum up South Africa in one sentence I would explain it as a contrast between immense beauty, racial inequality, and poverty. I’ve included pictures to paint my picture.


Friday, July 4, 2008

Cape Town Weather

I cannot believe how COLD it is here! I came to Africa expecting to perfect my tan as I frolicked along the beaches of the Atlantic Ocean. Boy, was I in for a treat! The seasons here are opposite of the United States; so winter has just begun. And I know what you're thinking... "Geez Becky, you wimp. How cold can it get in Africa?!?" Well my friend, I tell you what... it gets cold!

The temperature during the day has been around 50-55 degrees Fahrenheit (give or take). Cool breeze blows from the coast which adds a chill factor to the day. Not to mention the average rainfall is highest during the winter months. Sooo, the cute little dresses and sandals that I've brought for my trip are pretty much useless. In fact, I packed them away and have replaced them with a down winter jacket that I bought at the mall today. Ugh... and here I thought I left the cold weather back in Minnesnowta.

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Cape Town, South Africa

We're here! Amanda and I arrived safely in Cape Town on Tuesday night. We've been unpacking and trying to get settled in to our new home. We're staying at a Bed and Breakfast housing unit with other individuals who are participating in Living Hope and ACTS Africa. So far, so good! Amanda will be in returning to the US on July 29th. I will be here until December 1st. We're just getting introduced to our new team members and we will learn more about our individual programs/work assignments by early next week. I'm looking forward to getting established here and creating a new "home" away from home. I'll be getting a cell phone soon and I'm also looking into buying a car with another girl here. Crazy, huh!? I don't even know if I have my license back in the states, but I'm looking into getting an international license... (they drive on the left side of the road and the steering wheel is located where our passenger seat is). Def. shoot up some prayers for that one!

Hope everyone is doing well. Much love!

Safari in South Africa

My team and I left Mozambique last Sunday. I had a few complications on my flight from Mozambique to South Africa - my ticket wasn't in the system and the plane was full. I had to get approval from the pilot to let me on the plane. Thank the Lord that everything worked out. Because the plane was completely full, a teammate of mine sat with the pilot in the cockpit and I was able to have her seat. What a relief!

We stayed at Mabula Lodge, a resort north of Johannesburg, from Sunday until Tuesday. It was a great ending to our trip. We were able to unwind and decompress from our time in Moz. During our stay at the lodge, we went on three safari game drives (two in the morning and one in the evening). It was soooo unbelievable! Our guides were amazing, the animals were so close and so wild, and the scenery was breathtaking.

I've attached a few pictures for your viewing pleasure....

Mozambique Pictures




























Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Internet Connectivity

For the past 2 1/2 weeks my internet usage has been VERY limited. Therefore, my posts are a little out dated. I will try to blog a bit tomorrow to get everyone caught up with my happenings. Stay tuned..

Good-bye Mozambique

This weekend was filled with stories, laughs and tears as we said our “good-byes” to Mozambique.

On Friday, the people of Dondo gathered together to bid us “farwell”. Students, teachers, patients, and co-workers prepared speeches and dances for us in honor of our work with the “The Ray of Light Project”. One of the translators spoke on behalf of the Mozambican group and said, “If we had money, we would give you riches. But since we don’t have money we will show you our thanks with music and dance”. Their performances were amazing, and boy could they move!! They also gifted each member of our team with a capalana (a capalana is printed fabric used for clothing). Just to put it in perspective, a typical family has about five members and lives off of $30 a month. So this gesture speaks volumes to the generosity of these people.

On Saturday we spent the evening with Jeronimo and Noemia Cessito, the founders of “The Ray of Light Project”. We had engaging conversations about our time here, how we’ve changed, and what their vision is for the program. We also talked about specific prayer requests that I would like to share with you. If you feel lead, please lift up “The Ray of Light Project” by praying about these specific things:

1. Resources for a full-time nurse at the clinic
2. Christian teachers for 2009 school year at El Shaddai (the elementary school )
3. Funding for Project Life (the AIDS hospice program)
4. Health, education and spiritual renewal for the people of Mozambique.

Also, if you would like to sponsor a child or make a financial contribution to any of the programs in “The Ray of Light Projects”, visit www.childrensrelief.org/.